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Relaxation

Med_1 I was recently taught a relaxation exercise that I would like to share with those of you who find yourselves anxious, always in a hurry, strapped for time, and maybe -- even at times -- depressed.  Relaxation and mindfulness will lead to less anxiety, lower blood pressure, and it will reduce the cumulative damage that stress has on your body and soul. 

Take ten minutes a day -- find a quiet peaceful spot to relax away from the days disturbances.  Sit upright with a straight back, or lie on your back in a comfortable position.  Do not cross your legs and keep your arms relaxed at your side.

Focus on your breathing.  Clear your mind and focus on each individual breath.  Be aware of your lungs as they fill with air as you inhale, and as you exhale be aware of the air leaving your body.  Focus only on your breath circulating throughout your body, clear your mind of all other thoughts.

Man_yoga_1Count to 4 slowly on the inhale, and let the breath out slowly while counting to 8 during the exhale.  It is inevitable that your mind will wander to thoughts of the day, as well as noises and sensations in the environment, however, as these distractions enter your consciousness acknowledge them and then bring your awareness back to your steady healthful breath. 

I promise that after a week of this breathing exercise you will feel more energized and relaxed.  All it takes is 10 minutes to yourself -- who couldn't use a quick ten minute get away for the hassles of the day everyday?

August 25, 2005 in Fitness, Health, Peace of Mind | Permalink | Comments (2)

Women and Depression

This article has been excerpted from -- Nami: The Voice of the Nations Mental Illness

Women and Depression Clinical depression is a serious medical illness that is much more than temporarily feeling sad or blue. It involves disturbances in mood, concentration, sleep, activity, appetite, and social behavior. Depression can develop in anyone at any age; and, although it is highly treatable, it is frequently a life-long condition in which periods of wellness alternate with recurrences of illness. Clinical depression affects twice as many women as men, both in the U.S. and in many societies around the world. It is estimated that one out of every seven women will suffer from depression in their lifetime.

Additionally, women experience higher rates of seasonal affective disorder and dysthymia (chronic depression). While the rates of bipolar disorder (manic depression) are similar in men and women, women have higher rates of the depressed phase of manic depression and rapid-cycling bipolar disorder.

What causes the higher rate of depression in women? The explanation for the gender gap in susceptibility to depression lies in a combination of biological, genetic, psychological, and social factors. Biological factors There appear to be important links between mood changes and reproductive health events. Thus, the gender gap in depression is most evident during the female reproductive years. Some women experience behavior and mood changes premenstrually. As many as 10 percent to 15 percent experience a clinical depression during pregnancy or after the birth of a baby. There also appears to be an increase in depression during the perimenopausal period, but after menopause this does not appear to be the case. Additionally, differences in thyroid function between men and women may contribute to the gender difference in the prevalence of mood disorders.

Another biological factor that may contribute to gender differences in depression can be linked to circadian rhythm patterns, the complex system that regulates sleep and activity over each 24-hour period. Depressed women report more hypersomnia (excessive sleeping) than do men.

Gender differences in the activity of neurotransmitters including serotonin and the effects of estrogen on their function may also be linked to the gender disparity in rates of depression.

Genetic factors -- some forms of depression run in families. There is a 25 percent rate of depression in the first-degree relatives (mother, father, siblings) of people with depression and greater prevalence of the illness in first-degree and second-degree female relatives. But depression also occurs in people who have no family history of the disease.

Psychosocial factors -- psychosocial factors that may contribute to women's increased vulnerability to depression include the stress of multiple work and family responsibilities, sexual and physical abuse, sexual discrimination, lack of social supports, traumatic life experiences, and poverty.

Several studies of depression among college students and within the Amish community of eastern Pennsylvania have shown no gender difference in the rates of depression, suggesting that greater social equality may help reduce the higher rates of depression in women. Women also appear to be more willing than men to admit feelings of depression and report past episodes of depression to physicians, perhaps also contributing to the gender difference in depression rates. Psychological make-up plays an important role in one's vulnerability to depression as well. Thus, women with low self-esteem, pessimistic views, and tendencies towards stress are prone to clinical depression. Studies also indicate that sexual and physical abuse are major risk factors for depression. Women are twice as likely as men to have experienced sexual abuse. A recent study found that three out of five of the women diagnosed with depressive illnesses had been victims of abuse. In one major study, 100 percent of women who had experienced severe childhood sexual abuse developed depression later in life.

Does pregnancy influence depression? Although it was once thought that pregnancy was associated with low rates of mental illness in women, recent research reveals that 10 percent to 15 percent of women experience depression during pregnancy. As many as 80 percent of women experience the "postpartum blues," a brief period of depressive symptoms. Additionally, 10 percent to 15 percent of women suffer from postpartum clinical depression within three months of delivery. There is a three-fold increase in risk for depression during or following a pregnancy among women with a past history of mood disorders. Once a woman has experienced a postpartum depression, her risk of having another reaches 70 percent. One woman in a thousand experiences a postpartum psychosis-a medical emergency where the woman may inflict harm upon herself and/or her baby. The first episode of bipolar disorder in women frequently occurs following the birth of a child.

Are there gender differences in the course of a depression? Women have a higher one-year prevalence of the illness, may experience longer episodes, and have a lower rate of spontaneous remission than men. Older women are also more likely to have recurrent depressive episodes than older men. Women are two to three times more likely to develop double depression (clinical depression and chronic depression together). Although men and women exhibit similar symptoms of depression, women report more atypical symptoms including anxiety, somatization (the physical expression of mental processes such as aches and pains with no physiological cause), increases in weight and appetite, oversleeping, and expressed anger and hostility.

How about gender differences in the treatment of depression? Psychotherapy Psychotherapy is an effective treatment for depression. Studies have shown that interpersonal therapy and cognitive/behavioral therapy can be very effective for the treatment of mild to moderate depression. Psychotherapy may be particularly useful for women patients during pregnancy and during times when they are trying to conceive to avoid possible effects on the developing fetus that may result from the use of some medications. Antidepressant medications

There is no clear evidence of gender differences in the effectiveness of antidepressant medications; although, women experience more adverse side effects than do men. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) such as Prozac, Zoloft, Paxil, and Luvox have fewer side effects and have been found to be particularly useful and effective in women patients. Some doctors suggest increasing doses of antidepressant drugs premenstrually, as the menstrual cycle may alter drug-absorption rates. Is it safe to take antidepressants during pregnancy? Because of the potential risk to the developing fetus or newborn, the costs and benefits of the use of antidepressants must be weighed carefully for women who are pregnant, breast-feeding, or trying to conceive. Most large-scale studies have not shown any significant increase in birth defects in children of women using tricyclic antidepressants (Anafranil, Elavil, Pamelor) or SSRIs during pregnancy; but be certain to consult with your own physician because not all studies have had similar results. However, MAOIs (Nardil, Parnate) may adversely affect the developing fetus and lead to complications during delivery. Lithium (commonly prescribed for bipolar disorder) has been linked to an increased incidence of birth defects; however, many healthy babies have been born to mothers using this medication. Doctors should choose the lowest effective dose of medication and select drugs with the least sedative and anticholinergic (rapid heartbeat, high blood pressure, slow digestion, dry mouth, constipation, and urinary retention) potency because of possible adverse effects on the newborn. In patients with severe depression, doctors must weigh the risks and benefits in both the mother and the infant of medication as compared to not administering drug therapy.

This fact sheet is based on an article written by Susan J. Blumenthal, M.D., M.P.A., Assistant Surgeon General, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services published in NAMI's The Decade of the Brain (Fall 1996, Volume VII, Issue 3) The NAMI HelpLine can be a lifeline for consumers and families in need.

August 16, 2005 in Health, Peace of Mind | Permalink | Comments (4)

Live - Love -and LAUGH

Juliaheadshotbw_1 Julia Griggs Havey, Ediets Master Motivator

June 13, 2005

Link: No joke: Study finds laughing can burn calories.

If you don't know it, laughing is good for you.  It will raise levels of cells in your immune cells, increase the chemical output that gives you that euphoria feeling, helps keep stress at bay....and now, apparently it's good for burning calories, too!

If you observe children and observe those of retired age (over 65), you'll see a difference in who laughs more. Maybe this could be a part of the equation that contributes to obesity - a lack of laughter.  "No..." you say?  Well, think of it this way: doesn't your ability to laugh bear a direct reflection of your attitude?  I think it does.  I believe if you can laugh at the simple things and the humor about those simple things, then you probably have a pretty good attitude.  Of course we're not  talking about laughing at someone else's harm or bad fortune - that could be considered cruel.  This kind of laughter should be pure - something cute a child says, a character in a Jim Carrey movie, or your 94 year-old grandmother telling you she wishes everyone were as perfect as we are (that really happened, and she was really kidding!). 

If you think that your attitude is a reflection of how well you can laugh, then maybe it's also a reflection of how well you can get out and move around and take a walk or go on a bike ride or try roller blading.  Laughing is child-like and if you want to stay feeling young and energetic, then you've got to keep some of those child-like qualities.

Does life beat us up to much as we age that we stop laughing as much as when we were kids?  Could we take the time to smell the flowers, and enjoy some time finding humor?  My husband and I enjoy watching funny movies with the kids every now and then, and I think we sometimes get carried away.  And we like to joke with one another as long as we all know it's not at the other person's expense.

So go ahead laugh it up!  It will improve your mood, your energy level, your overall health.... and you'll know you're burning some calories too!

August 15, 2005 in Beauty, Fitness, Peace of Mind | Permalink | Comments (0)

Peace of Mind

Join my Journey

Sunf I am wiser than some and not as wise as others. I am just like you -- involved in work, school, family, friends, and just taking care of life's stuff.  My journey includes learning to focus on what matters to me, being able to prioritize, and utilizing my energy to create a rich positive environment to live in.  I have made many changes in my life over the past few years, and it is not until this moment that I realized  that my journey does not end with those changes, but it continues as the path I pave every day with the choices I make and the relationships I forge. 

A few tips to keep it real for yourself:

  • The authentic you -- Learn who you are, and learn to love who you are.
  • Come from a positive place -- Think and make decisions from a positive place without negativity.
  • Be thoughtful -- Always be thoughtful in all your movements, actions and choices you make for yourself and others.
  • Integrity -- Be true to your word, always, without exception.
  • Priority -- Know what is important to you and do not lose site of it.
  • Impact -- You are powerful. Realize your impact on the world and use it wisely, responsibly, and selflessly.

A good life requires some introspection.  It is not meant to be easy, but it is meant to be an adventure. 

July 20, 2005 in Peace of Mind | Permalink | Comments (0)

Aging Parents

At  the age of 80, my dad is the picture of physical and mental health -- although if he continues driving -- I am going to have to be committed. 

Providing care for our parents who are aging can create a challenging and unrestful circumstance.  If you are anything like me, you may not be aware of resources to turn to for support when the time comes.  I have recently done a search and have found many resources that will come in handy in the years to come:

Aging Solutions

Children of Aging Parents

More...

July 18, 2005 in Peace of Mind | Permalink | Comments (0)

Peace of Mind

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Tranquility and peace of mind are paramount to a well balanced lifestyle.  Important elements include our relationships with friends and loved ones, the work we choose, our past times and interests, and our down time; the time we spend alone.  I hope to share articles, recommendations for getaways, meditation exercises, spa listings, and much more that will help you achieve the quality of life you were born to live.

June 01, 2005 in Peace of Mind | Permalink | Comments (1)

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